What ever happened to the idea of 18th century gentlemen?

I'm sure you all have either seen or read Jane Austin's Pride and Prejudice and wonder what happened to the dashing gentlemanly Mr. Darcy of those times. When the women respected men and the men captured the heart of their maiden. Have you ever stopped to think those times are not lost? Now your probably thinking, "back up the train there girl, have you met some of the guys today?" Yes, I actually on numerous occasions I have had guys be gentlemen, and some not so gentlemanly. Fact of the matter is how we treat them when it happens. If the guy holds the door open for you, how do you act towards him? In today's world saying thank you doesn't happen often anymore. Arrogant femininity of today makes us either ignore the guy, or put him down because you think you are more then capable to do it yourself. So the guy will more then likely give up after awhile and never try to change. Then the girls end up wondering what happened to the gentlemen of Jane Austin's world. If we want guys to be more gentlemen and heroic, we shouldn't scorn or bash them. God calls us to respect and reverence them. (Ephesians 5:33) I know this verse talks about a wife and husband, but the same principles apply to us unmarried women. Practice building up the guys in your life right now. have faith in our almighty God and what he can do through man! Next time you wonder where Mr. Darcy is, pray. Remember, God is never limited to any guys weakness. He is more interested in the guy's soul then you are!